Tuesday, November 18, 2014

Fall Dots

Yesterday Aria got her 2 month immunizations. It was so heartbreaking. She was a trooper though. I am back at work. I miss her so much while at work, but I know she is in good hands with her grandma! She sure loves her Grandma.

So I got this skirt from a Honey and Lace party. I love polka dots and I love maxi skirts. So win win. I do have to warn you the fabric is quite thin so I would suggest wearing a slip or tights underneath. I don't know why companies don't line their fabrics? Why make a garment see through?? So I am going to line the skirt myself. Kinda irritating.






Sweater: Cotton On
Skirt: Honey & Lace
Shoes: Cotton On
Black Top: Wet Seal (old)
Necklace: Charming Charlie

Thursday, November 13, 2014

#GirlsCan by CoverGirl + Giveaway

So today's outfit was inspired by Covergirls All-In-One Professional mascara. Covergirl has a special edition #GirlsCan line. The campaign promotes the emporement of women. Breaking the mold, turning a can't into a can. Covergirl is turning a can't into a can by donating $50,000 to the Dress for Success Campaign.  For more information visit GirlsCanGiveBack.com. This special #GirlsCan line can be found in the cosmetics section of your local Walmart. Covergirl wants to give one of my awesome readers a chance to win a $25 Walmart gift card.Just follow the steps below to enter to win.  So you can experience their awesome #GirlsCan Professional Mascara. Have you ever turned a can't into a can?

This whole blog of mine use to be a can't. I have always been painfully shy. Awkward even. But I have always had a passion for fashion. I started designing clothes when I was in Elementary school. When I found that I lacked the skill of sewing I went to styling. I started Nightchayde. Soon after I got some really awful comments fired at me. I kept telling myself I can't do this. I started listening to the negativity of others. But one day I woke up and told myself that I can do this. I can be myself despite what other people may say. You can do anything you set your mind to. You don't have to be rich, popular, or the expectation of beauty. Everything is subjective. You are the only one that dictates what you can and cannot achieve. I love this campaign by Covergirl. #GirlsCan!







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Wednesday, November 12, 2014

Camo Time

Fall means out comes the camo. I love a good camo jacket and comfortable leggings. It has been getting cooler and cooler. This is my last week home with Baby Girl. I am going to miss her so much. It has been so hard thinking of having to leave her to go back to work. I love my job, but when I love staying home and being with Aria.









Tuesday, November 11, 2014

Why I am perfectly fine my husband is in love with another girl.

From the moment I hit the dating years there was one thing I always looked for in any guy I dated. Would he be a good father? I know it's always "too soon" to think about that stuff if your just dating someone. But you marry who you date right? So what's the point of dating someone if they lack a trait that you look for in a guy. I dated some really big losers. I dated some amazing guys. But non of them showed my the genuine love that Brandon did. I knew he would love our child as much if not more than he loved me. 
Brandon was the first to find out if we were pregnant or not. I took the test set it on the counter and took a shower. I told him to look at it first. With tears in his eyes he just showed me the test. It was positive. I honestly think he was more excited than I was. I was a little more freaked out. My mind instantly went through the labor part. I was petrified of labor. Absolutely terrified. 

My first Trimester was complete and total hell. I was so sick. I remember the only foods I could keep down were Fries, and Ramen noodles. After I got my flu shot I was so so sick. I was curled up in bed just crying. Bawling really. And my sweet husband sat there and reassured me everything was ok. That this would all be worth it. And again I knew I had made the right choice in finding an amazing father for our child. This is how he would calm her after a broken heart, a scrapped knee, a bad day. He would take care of her just as he took care of me. 

Fast forward to the day I was most excited about but feared the most. It was birthing day. He sat next to me through the whole process. Got me ice chips, held my hand, watched movies with me. Through the whole process he was there. He even held my puke bag while I hurled my guts out. Now that is true love! Aria came out and I saw his face. He was in love with another girl. And I am totally ok with that. People who say love at first sight isn't real has never experienced seeing your child for the first time. That is truly love at first sight. She started crying and they took her to the warming table and as soon as she heard daddies reassurance she stopped crying immediately. She knew that calming voice. Watching him hold her and comfort her. It absolutely warmed my heart. I was so exhausted and he watched over her. He had no idea what to do but he did an amazing job.

Ladies please, when searching for a companion require that they will be an amazing parent. Guys, never settle for someone who won't be a caring mother. Screw looks, screw money, screw all the petty things people search for in a mate. This is not one thing to settle on. I see the love Brandon has for Aria. I know that she will always be watched after by not one but two loving parents. And that is why I am ok with my Husband loving another girl. 

Yes mom I did cry a few times writing this. Don't judge. 



Monday, November 10, 2014

Baby Wish List

I love love love shopping for Aria. It is so much more fun shopping for things for her than for myself. So many cute outfits, and toys. I cannot wait for her first Christmas. I was asking around what the heck do you get a 3 month old for Christmas? When I came across my favorite online deal site I got her list all planned out. I cannot wait to get them! What is on your babies wish list? What is on yours?


Friday, November 7, 2014

Wishlist Time

I am always on the hunt for a great deal. When shopping for clothes, shoes and accessories I make a list of what I need, what I want and what I have. That way I don't have 15 black cardigans. I like to find pieces that will be in style or have been in style for a while. It is always nice to have a few of those trendy splurges, but before you know it they are out of style. Search the web for great deals. Look at deal websites. I like to shop Zulily because they have a huge variety of things. They have things for all ages, sizes, and budgets. You can find designer clothing, cheap clothing and everything in between.




Tuesday, November 4, 2014

Fall Scarves

So I was talking with my sister the other day about scarves. She was looking for inexpensive places to search for a cute scarf. So I realized I need to do a scarf shopping guide. Scarves are an essential fall piece. Not are they only practical, but they are sure cute with a pair of leggings and boots. Here are some scarves on my shopping list. What scarves do you guys have your eye on?